A relationship expert believes Tom Brady made Gisele Bündchen feel “abandoned and unloved” amid rumors they were divorcing.
“Inconsistency can also be confusing and unsettling in a relationship and it can be that Tom is not sure how he feels and what he wants from life, which will make Gisele feel abandoned and unloved”, the adviser of Jo Hemmings relationships. told the sun in a new interview published Thursday.
Hemmings argued that the estranged couple will also “be doomed” if they don’t address their issues head-on with some urgency.
“The only way to avoid this is proper communication, where feelings can be talked about openly and honestly,” he explained.
“If one or both partners have spent much of their adult life putting their career first, it can be something of a wake-up call when they find they need, or even want, to find the time to include family life in their lives. that embedded pattern.”
Hemmings pointed out that, like Brady, many people tend to find success at work more rewarding than achievement in their personal lives.
“They may also feel insecure, worried that without job validation and fulfillment, they will lose their sense of purpose or fear that others might take on the roles they believe are meant for them,” he suggested.
“But most of us (research would suggest nearly 70%) are ‘integrators,’ and these guys struggle to find the right work-life balance, feeling like they’re not giving either one enough time ”.
According to Hemmings, even if Brady, 45, and Bündchen, 42, try to work on their marriage, it may be too late to repair the damage that has already been done.
“Sometimes, unfortunately, it’s just too late and some relationships are irretrievably broken and there’s no way to repair them,” he explained. “Tom and Gisele, especially with a young family, would do well to seek professional help to maximize their chances of saving their marriage, if possible.”
Bundchen and Brady marriage of 13 years shaking blow after NFL star decided not to retire of his football career.
In September, we reported that the couple had an “epic” fight for the sports champion’s refusal to throw in the towel in his career, despite announcing his retirement in February.
“There have been problems in the marriage because of his decision to retire. Gisele has always been the one with the kids,” a source told us at the time. “They had agreed that she would retire to focus on the family, she later changed her mind.”
One month after, Page Six Reported Exclusively that the two had hired divorce attorneys in the midst of their marital problems. Multiple sources also claimed that there was very little chance that the duo would reconcile.
“[Gisele] is done with his marriage,” a source told the people In the past week. “She was upset about it for a long time, and it’s still hard, but she feels like she needs to move on. She doesn’t think her marriage can be repaired.”
then fists seemed to cast a shadow at Brady last week while commenting on an Instagram post about “inconsistent” partners. Days later, Brady further fueled breakup rumors when he attended Robert Kraft’s surprise wedding without Bündchen.
he was also photographed without a wedding ring as he left his hotel before the Tampa Bay Buccaneers game in Pennsylvania last Sunday.
Bundchen and Brady share son Benjamin, 12, and daughter Vivian, 9. The athlete also has a 15-year-old son, Jack, with his ex Bridget Moynahan.